Climbing Pregnant: Month 3: First Trimester Done
Most people said the nausea would likely be gone by the end of the first trimester. But there was always a chance the I’d be one of those unlucky women who were sick throughout their pregnancy. As the end of the first trimester approached, I felt a mix of hope and dread. Luckily, as my third month came to a end, so did my daily bouts of sickness. It took about two weeks to fully fade out, but then it was gone. Yipee skipee, no more nausea! The relief of not feeling nauseas everyday was incredible. It felt great to have energy again and not feel continuously sick.
The first trimester is an important mile marker on the road to having a baby for many reasons. A lot has already taken place developmentally. And all the biggest changes are about to kick into high gear.
In case you haven’t already picked it up from reading my past posts, change causes me to worry. Yep … it’s true 🙂 I don’t know where I get it from, but I know when it started: after being kidnapped in Kyrgyzstan. I started to notice myself thinking in terms of worst-case scenarios more and more. Anytime someone says “What are the odds of [insert awful outcome] happening?” I think to myself, “Actually, probably pretty darn good!”
Around 10 weeks, we had the option of getting a handful of blood tests done. Because we still weren’t telling people about the pregnancy yet, I didn’t ask around if these tests were a good idea. And since Randy has great health insurance, there were no extra costs associated with the tests, so we decided to just go for it. Some of my blood tests came back slightly higher or lower than normal, placing me in a higher risk bracket than my age. The doctor said it was nothing to worry about at this time, but she obviously didn’t know who she was talking to! I know that these tests are meant to help and reassure pregnant women. But for a worrier like me, I think having something concrete like numbers on paper was a double-edged sword.
I went to Internet message boards to see what other women did with similar information. I would highly and strongly recommend NOT doing this! Again, I know these people mean well, but there is a lot of alarmist and not necessarily helpful or educated information out there. I think it’s best to talk to friends that have been through similar things. But because I was still being so closed about the pregnancy, I just had the random opinions and experiences of strangers swirling through my worrying head.
Around this time, one of my finger injuries started acting up. I’m not sure if it’s from climbing while pregnant, climbing while the relaxin hormone was pulsing through my body, or if it had nothing to do with the pregnancy and it was just my chronic finger injury. Perhaps it was all three. Regardless I climbed a lot less – probably only twice the whole month. This was no time to push through an injury. It wasn’t like I was close to sending a project. Instead I was looking at another six months of being pregnant and several more to recover before I could even think about climbing harder than 5.9 again.
Honestly it felt weird to wake up each morning and not plan out a climbing day—something I’ve been doing almost every day for the past 17 years. Despite all of my injuries, climbing has remained so much a part of my daily routine— like eating breakfast or going for a walk. Climbing is something I do just to exercise and feel good about myself, whether that be a 5.14 project when I’m feeling strong and fit, or a 5.9 hand crack or easy slab route when my finger or shoulder injuries are raging. For almost two decades, climbing has been a major part of each and every day. It felt weird to not have it be there, a huge void in my day. Yet, another part of me felt relieved, as if a weight had been lifted. I could take this time to focus on other things, and enjoy the extra time in my day.
I started lifting weights and walking religiously. It felt good to move actively and it took my mind off of the last bouts of nausea. I prayed that the second trimester would bring back my old appetite, and that I would somehow override my heightened worrying and crazy hormones to attain a sense of mental clarity.
In climbing projects, during that long, often frustrating redpointing process, we have to find ways to encourage ourselves even though the ultimate success of a clipping the chains is months away. So what if you didn’t send that day? You stuck the crux move from the ground. Or you figured out some new beta. Or you felt stronger on the top of the route.
In climbing those incremental achievements and steps forward are really what add up and lead to the ultimate success. Now, what I’d learned form 17 years of climbing was coming back to help me in pregnancy. I realized I had “ticked” the tough first trimester. I was a long way from sending, but I stepped back and decided that instead of being discouraged about how far I’d yet have to go, I felt happy by how far I’d already come.
Hey Beth, really like your blog and big congrats on your pregnancy! I have a bit of a non-pregnancy question… I am very interested to know about how your hypermobility has affected your climbing in general and what if anything you've needed to do to manage it? I have been pushing myself more with climbing over the past couple of years and been very pleased with what I've acheived but I have suffered increasingly with injuries and strange muscle and joint pains that spontaneously appear and disappear. I have now been told by many physios/ osteopaths/ surgeons that I have very hypermobile joints and I am trying to learn how to manage them better. I do feel like it holds me back though and really reduces the amount of training I can do. Would be really interesting to know your experiences with it.
Best wishes and good luck for the next trimester!
Hi Helena –
Thank you very much for your comment. Ah yes, our hypermobile joints! They can be challenging to say the least. I first started getting joint issues more than ten years ago, mainly with my shoulders and collateral ligaments in my fingers. I'd say the one thing that I have done to manage them is to be very aware of them and the type of climbing I am doing. For instance, finger cracks are very hard on my collateral ligaments, so I try and make sure I have good form, reduce the amount of ring locks and especially tweaky positions. With my shoulders, I try to be religious with my band shoulder exercises. This keeps my shoulders tighter and less reliant on the connective tissue to stabilize the joint, and more on the stronger muscles.
I wish there were some magic answer I could give you, but unfortunately I haven't found anything yet. Just be mindful of the type of moves you do. I definitely avoid certain moves, but haven't found that it held me back in the amount of climbing I want to do.
I hope that helps, but please let me know if I can help in any other way!
All my best,